Let’s face it—money is the puppet master pulling the strings of our lives. 

Yet, talking about it? 

Yeah, that’s somehow ruder than someone cutting in line at Starbucks. This isn’t just a social faux pas; it’s a carefully crafted tool of power. 

Money talk is one of the most heavily policed conversations for women. Why? Because silence keeps that power unevenly distributed. So we’re done playing by those rules.

Isn’t it interesting how so many of us grew up hearing that if we had sex we’d immediately get pregnant? At first blush, the comment, often coming from well-meaning parents doesn’t seem obviously harmful, but in breaking it down, it’s more clear that pregnancy is framed as a consequence and birth as a lesson.

We've all been there. One minute, you're swept off your feet by someone who seems to hang the moon just for you. The next, you're left picking up the pieces of your heart, wondering if you imagined it all. Intense interest → confusion → silence. 

Welcome to the emotional whiplash that is modern dating.

Ever feel like chasing beauty is a second job you never signed up for—but still clock into daily? You’re not imagining it. Gen Z femmes are being told to “love your body” while being served a thousand filtered reasons not to. And while we’re counting calories, comparing angles, and editing stretch marks, guess what we’re not doing? Writing poems. Starting businesses. Living our damn lives.

Ever feel like the world screams “freedom” but side-eyes you for talking about sex? Same. Gen Z is caught in a weird cultural whiplash: hyper-visible online, but still punished for showing up as sexually autonomous IRL. It’s not just exhausting—it’s dangerous.

Your obsession with being “cool” and “happy” is making you ugly, boring, and miserable.

Choose yourself instead of being a “pick me.”